Chapter 4 : Safeword Is Important
Chapter 4: Safeword Is Important
Gideon
“Today's lesson won't be fun,” I warned the two bulky men kneeling in front of me in their underwear. It is probably the one apprentice Doms hates the most, the one on bottoming.
The mere memory of the time both me and my best friend Lucious was taught by the master Dom a few years ago still sends shivers down my spine. The two men in front of me shift awkwardly, the tiny bit they can since their ankles were attached to the extremities of a spreader bar and their hands are tied behind their backs, to the ring in the middle of it. Leaving them with little to none room to move from their kneeling position. I have not given such a warning on any of the lessons before. But let's take a step back. I am sure you might be wondering why I have two alpha males all tied up in front of me. This is because I am the owner of a successful nightclub called The Bedrock which contains a more secret club dedicated to bdsm. Basically, this is where dominant guys like me who like to have control over their partners can freely meet and interact with submissive guys who like to be controlled, all in a very safe and consensual way. The two men in front of me would like to become dominants of this club but before they are certified, they have to take a pretty long training. When you begin to involve ropes, bonds and power exchange in a kinky sexual relationship, it can turn out pretty badly if the person in control doesn't know what he is doing or the risk involved. After being second-in-command for the Dom master for the past five years, I have seen how quickly things can go astray and I have heard many more horror stories from my mentor.
That is why no one gets to play with my babies until they go through all the basics lessons to become dominant. There is even more to undertake if they are into more extreme stuff. I don't care what experience they may have in the lifestyle already, this is mandatory for everyone, the only exception being the recommended members of a few serious clubs in other cities where I personally know the owners. And yes, my babies. I considered all the certified submissives of the club my babies. With the master Dom being almost retired, I will soon become the master Dom, which means I will be and already feel responsible for the well-being of all its members, especially the most vulnerable ones. I have yet to see Dom being traumatized by a submissive.
To get back to the topic at hand, a dominant's training begins with a theoretical part, then continues with the usual training of a submissive before going to the more practical lesson of how to use the different instruments they may come across in a playroom. I always use them for a few minutes on my dominants, just to show them how it works before I let them rest with willing submissiveness under my watch. Those are the fun parts, but to be really sure they know what they are playing with and they understand the risk. Master Dom has always been a strong believer of more intense lessons like the one I am about to teach today. The toughest part of the training to become a certified dominant in my club is that all these big and muscular men have to try all the basic scenes while being on the receiving end. This is to make sure they really appreciate the gift the submissive is offering them and don't go too far. I know they don't particularly enjoy it, they would be submissive otherwise but this is still mandatory. So there is a lesson on spanking with the hand or the paddle, bottoming with the plugs, the vibrators or even a good old-fashioned fucking if the trainee is willing, edging with the use of dick rings or chastity device and the one planned for today, deep throating. Each of those usually humbles the apprentice Dominant following it even if they are only a quick demonstration of what could go wrong and they can of course safe word out of it.
If they are not happy, they can go train elsewhere, my club, my rules. In any case, trainees usually hate today's lesson but more than a fair share end up being aroused when they are spanked, edged a little more for the promise of better orgasm or beg to be fucked once I have properly prepped them. Enjoying the tight ass of these bulky men is one of my personal kinks.
“We will cover blowjobs today and more particularly deep-throating.” I said.
“Like many dominants, I am sure the idea of pounding in the mouth of a cute little twink on his knees in front of you deeply arouses you and that sounds of him gagging may excite you even more. However, if you are not careful and too eager, this can lead to a practice called dick gagging that even the most masochist submissives of this club all have categories as a one.”
Every member of the club has to fill out a sheet with all the most popular BDSM activities that they have to rank from zero to five. The one I was talking about means the submissive grading the paper considers as a soft limit, so he can be engaged in this kind of play under some circumstances but he doesn't really enjoy it.
“For reasons that will become obvious in a few minutes. This is not even on the regular list of activities, just on the hardcore one that only masochistic submissives have to fill. So it should be considered as a hard limit for every regular submissive. I am sure you have both seen porn videos online where twink gets his mouth abused by a dominant with a big díck and gage horribly. He even vomits.” I paused.
“You might have found it arousing, I know I do but you can't do it with just any submissive. Trust me when I say you will soon understand why. However eager you are, when you begin to take control of a submissive's mouth, you should always stop at half your díck and never stay inside for too long. For new boys with little experience, don't even go further than your mushroom head if you are the one setting the pace. Then if you see the submissive you are with is reacting well, you can thrust a bit deeper. Always stop going further when you hear the first gagging sound unless it is when a submissive you played several times with and are completely sure it is okay for him. And of course, what is the golden rule?”
“Always give the submissive a way to safe word.” The two of them said at the same time.
“Good boys,” I chuckled.
